Psychology Blog (Neurolove/psych-facts): Finding Your Motivation
Finding our motivation is a struggle we all face. The only reason we ever accomplish anything is due to motivation. So how do we develop one?
All our motivation is derived from two opposite ends, from what we’ve learned to consider as pain and pleasure, in other words…
Be a man, not just another guy..
It’s kind of difficult to prove nowadays how different you are from other guys to your soon to be lady. Well it’s not just about proving, it’s about who you really are.
I’m just kind of missing the feeling..
But if ever I meet her again, (here I go)
I will always tell her every morning, every single day, every minute how beautiful she is. I’ll tell her everyday that no other girl will be prettier than her and that is because it is true. (common lines pfft, but this is simply what we want to say)
I’m going to talk to her everyday like it’s always a new day. But if ever I’ll run out of words, I’ll always remind her how we met and how I felt the first time I saw her. (Telling her these kind of stories even if you repeat it every time will not her, for sure she’ll love it.)
The shortest message that I’ll give to her is “I love you :)” isn’t that short but “pouring-ly” meaningful? I guess she’ll have to get used to it.
Doesn’t matter where we are, as long as we’ll have that tact communication and the presence. True love will work it all. There’s no reason for the both of you to have problems in your relationship/long distance relationship. One text in the morning for a start, one in the afternoon and one in the evening that’ll end it all with a smile, it’ll all work.
Maybe there’ll be some glitches from me, but for sure she’ll understand why. It’s all for her. That very short shorts? I don’t want another guy thinking dirty stuffs about that from her.
Maybe she’ll tell me that there are tons of prettier girls out there. But I’ll prove her that falling in love will do much more than just that. They won’t matter at all. I’ll always hug her in front of a thousands out there just to tell them that my hands already belong to one. The temptation is nothing. Everything’s nothing knowing that she’s already my everything.
My father thought me the real deals in life. He doesn’t want me to go into serious relationship at the early age (well what kind of parent would want you to?) The point is, despite these kinds of advises, he never thought me to play with women. What exactly my mom would feel if ever he would do such thing? He told me one thing that I would never forget:
“Just be happy of what you have son, you don’t need to play with other people just to satisfy yourself. Through your music, you’ll find your joy.”
Makes sense right? I mean it just depends on how a guy thinks.
A funny thing my uncle told me once. “Just be professional in life and temptations won’t lure you. Nude painters? Doctors? Every person who has a job that involves nudity of women? Does these tempt them? Ask yourself.” I get the point there, just sharing. *laughs*
see what I mean? I don’t really know what topic this post contains, I have just let all my thoughts out. Peace!